We're Shifting!!

Its been a long time since my last post.. Wow..

Dunno what to write actually.

On 8th May 2012, we signed on the Option to purchase form, under the seller's column.

Yes, we sold our flat! Our 1st flat that we stayed for 8years..

Technically, we are still staying there but we had received the $5k deposit so we are waiting for our 1st appointment to follow up the sales.

Actually we had been trying to sell since last year Dec11 but the process did not run smooth.

There were lots of hipcups till I wonder, can the flat really be sold off one fine day?!

Why sell? Cos we feel that changes need to be make in order to get things moving.

This is one of the changes and we hope and wish, it is a good and correct move.

We are now looking for resales flats at TAMPINES!

YES! Back to TAMPINES where I had stayed since 5yrs old.

Hope the flats searching will not take long as we hope to keep the time frame within so that we will not be homeless too long.

Was informed few days back, first appointment date is 5th July. 2nd appointment date should be soon after the 1st appoint. Chinese believe no shifting during 7th Lunar month, so latest by 16 Aug, we will shift out of our current place.

We will need a temp lodging before we find the new place + reno.

Meanwhile, Dad and mummy are taking in the dogs. They cant bear them to stay in Pets hotel. Haha..

Updates again! :)

BULL SHIT!!

If sharing of thoughts == to hear rubbish, what you think its right, instead of discussing over the matter, listen to another side of opinion.. then there is no point of sharing any thoughts.

Especially when things u r doing are opp of what u preach..

BULL SHIT!!

Changes got to be make!

Its been a long time since my last post.

Then I realise the last post it about my grandma.. Last friday, we attended the 100 days rital le!

Time flies.. 100 days are gone just with a blink of eyes.

Now, we are left with only 18 days, slightly more than 3 weeks before we say goodbye to 2011 and welcome 2012.

Will 21 Dec 2012 really be end of the world?!

Looking back at 2011, nothing is achieved! haha.. NO result after trying for so long.

I think I should not go on with KKH gynae, should approach my friend's recommended gynae instead.

Next, either reno of our master bedroom is required or a change of neighbourhood will be good.

See if the current house can sell at a good price.

Only while discussing with our friends who are in property lines then we realised there are so many rules and regulations from HDB that are beneficial to themselves rather than owners.

We are really leaser of our own flat will we manage to pay up in full.

Changes got to be make in order to move on/up otherwise everything will be status quo. Nothing will change!

03/09/2011

At 12+ mid night, I received a call from my mum.
Ah ma had left us. She had ended her suffering, to a better place.

The next day morning, I went down to my uncle's house, where the funeral will be held.
At abt 1pm, Ah ma arrived from the mortuary. She is so skinny, so unlike of how she is before.
My cousin told me, its Ah ma's birthday next week (which is this coming Sunday) but she never get to celebrate with us le.

The feeling is weird..
I feel relief for her. After all she had been bed-ridden for years, she got her leg amputate, she need to go for dialysis every 3 days, her skin was wrinkled, dry n itch alot. She suffered.
Now that she had gone to a better place, she need not to endure all these pain and uncomfort any more.
BUT she is gone.. from us. Nobody will feel good when our close ones left us.

Ah ma! R.I.P!

Updates! Updates!

Air Tickets for Hong Kong trip BOOKED!!

Hotel for Hong Kong trip BOOKED

Trip CONFIRMED!

Yeah!

But its isnt cheap even thou we are flying via Tiger Airlines.

Airfares + Hotel cost around $1k for both of us le.

Counting down!!

H.O.N.G.K.O.N.G

My friend is inviting us to join her on a trip to hongkong in Oct --> shopping, eating, shopping and eating!!!

The weather will be cold! A cold holiday that I am looking forward to!

Now got to wait and see if Mr Tay can go!
Once done, ticket n hotel can be book!

and we can start planning our virgin trip to 东方之珠！

PS: at the same time, I am telling myself not to pin too much hopes on it. I scare last min he will tell me he cant make it and then that is it.. I will be stuck in SG again.\
Actually I did thought of going myself if he cant make it but that will mean I need find another person otherwise I got to have one whole room to myself leh.. expensive!!

One statement

One day, He mentioned to me:


你嫁了给我，不知道是我幸运还是你倒霉。





I ask him why?


He said: If I din marry him, I might be happier, with lots more things, gone more places, richer etc.


It strike me, linger in my heads.


I dunno why.





Maybe bcos I did think of that before in my mind, if I din marry him..

Finally I did it!

I had been talking abt sponsoring a child thru the world vision programme since long ago.
Things nv get started
I never make the first move.

I was watching a variety show by Channel 8 on Monday night, hosted by Fann Wong, called mission impossible.
They went to the Northern area of Chang Mai Thailand, poor refuges villages to help the villagers.
To let them learn a skill and let the kids have a chance to study, that is the only way to help them out of proverty.
I see the kids on the show. All so innocent, living in bad conditions.
Its remind me! Thing that I had been thinking abt and yet i did not do it till now.

So yesterday, I did it.
There are some kids from some areas where U can see their pics and choose; there are kids from certain countries protected under the child protection and security regulations, the details of these childern are not to be publish.
I choose to sponsor a child from Thailand where the kids are protected from child law.
The organisation will choose e child for me and send me the child profile.

This morning, when I check the email, i saw an email from WV.
Its consist of my sponsored child, a little gal, aged 4 ~~ Sathida from Northern Thailand's details and an intro to the place where she stay.

I am now a proud sponsored Mother! :)

This mark a special day in the Calender!

The day I flare up at Mr Tay’s boss’s wife aka his mum, my MIL.

Its on last wed, I was on MC, was at Rivervale mall doing some grocery shopping. My phone rang, it is from Mr Tay.
I answered but there come his mum’s voice. She asked me abt the conversation I had with my FIL. What did he say, didn’t he speak in a nice tone etc.
I told her, he did but the words he say/used wasn’t nice at all.

I flare up everything at her.
I cut her mid way.
I question her (with Mr Tay backing at the back – after that then I realises they are using speaker phone to talk to me)
I asked her if she is happy now although she own a flat – fully paid up, a business etc.
She replied me she isnt.
I asked her how much is enough?
She kept silence.

The conversation ended with Mr Tay took over the phone.

The fault isnt with her. But I cant stand the way she and her HB comment abt Mr Tay, how lowly they think of him, how incapable he is in their eyes.
Mr Tay told her, I wasn’t scolding her or throwing my temper at her.
I am just pointing her things that she cant see. Letting her know how big the world is, not just around them.
I hope I did bring across the message – if she want her son, she should let him go instead of holding on him bcos he is a cheap labour. Their characters arent suit to work together. The longer they work together, the worsen their r/s is…

I dunno if she understand but I hope she does. But actually its doesn’t matter cos the move is still with Mr Tay.

PS: Mr Tay miss a gathering session with his ex coll last sat as we were working at the shop.
His buddy came back with a news, a chance to go back his old trade.
He is still considering. I dunno how long he will take but I scare he will just brush the thoughts away again and go back to his current boss after his anger subside.
I got to constantly remind him, things wasn’t solved at all, since then till now cos problem is always being brush away, put it one side and carry on with life till one day its surface again.
I strongly feel that he got to make a first move with courage to make thing change.

The day I talked back to my HB's boss aka my FIL

Not today.
I did it on last sat over the phone.
Over some stupid, ridiculous remarks by him.

The story goes like this:

I saw cheap tickets to Auckland. Planning a trip there in Nov.
So Mr Tay called up to ask if possible to go on the trip. The boss wasnt ard to answer the call. Awhile later, he called back. I was at the counter so I answered the call.
I asked him the question
Me: We saw cheap air tickets so we are wondering if he can go for the trip
Boss: He had gone for many days of leaves this year le. If he is working for other people, this way of working also wun be accepted by other people de. (Note: we only went a 5D4N trip over weekend to BKK n a 2D1N trip over weekend to Malacca)
Then he go off work from Defu early at 4+pm then only 7pm then reached woodland and tell me he overslept. (FYI, its only a one time incident. He reached home 4+ close to 5pm, he told his boss he take a short nap like 30min and will reach at 6pm. He did oversleep and thus reached woodland at 7pm -- this is what they did when Mr Tay was stationed at woodland, sometimes they reached only at 8+pm, for what?!)
He never seriously work de plus we are short handed liao etc etc etc. (He goes on complaining about Mr Tay's working attitude)
Dun talk about cheap air fare ah, I have a couple of free trips I also cant go ah. Tell u, we should work hard, earn more when we are young. Shld not be keep thinking abt play, have fun. Next time we go on tour together, dun worry about the air fare, dun need you all to pay hor?! ok?!
I got really angry. For the fact he rejected the 'application' of leave, for his comments on Mr Tay had went on for many days of leaves liao, for complaining of Mr Tay's working attitude etc etc.
Me: 如果你要这样讲,我也无话可说.
Boss: 不是我这样讲，你无话可说。etc etc etc
He went on but I continued what I want to say also. I dun care.
It is so unfair to Mr Tay. I got really fed up, pissed off and irritated!!

Straight to the point, he just unfair to his another 'worker' aka his 2nd son cos that fellow had never gone for a single holiday as of now. But H.E.L.L.O nobody said he cant go!! And in fact, Mr Tay is more than willing to cover him if he will to go but he himself dun want it. He said he cant let go of the business blah blah blah.
His 2nd son want to be a caveman that is his problem!! We dun have to become caveman just because he choose to be one! We work hard and we play hard! Even the retail shop worker had gone back twice to her hometown for 1 week each time. And coming July she is going back again.
Why she can go and Mr Tay cant?

Let me get the point straight:
1. Mr Tay only took 4 day of leaves for the BKK trip and 1 day for Malacca. So that is alot?! If he is working outside, it wun be accepted also. Please! I should have argue back, I was told to clear leaves. In fact quite a no. of my friends are too.

2. The boss did go for his free trips, unannounced somemore. We din know they went on the trip till the very day. Then Mr Tay will know the boss isnt ard and he need to cover him over the weekend.

3. The retail worker can go on leave, let her off on sat, leaving only 2 of us to work on sat. Can?! Short handed?! Ya RIGHT! our hands are short, not as long as hers.

4. We earn our own living, pay our own house and car, we spend our own holidays. I dun need sponsored trip from him at all. Esp his trip is CNY trip when I want to spend my CNY with my family members n relatives - CNY tradition. Mr Tay's reaction is the same, we can afford our own holidays, no need to be paid by other people.
I told Mr Tay: I am not going any trip with him. I will tell him, I cant take leave, my office is short handed! Haha..

5. I lead my own life! We have our own ways of relaxing and enjoying life. We enjoy travelling and that is our choice! Dun make us to follow ur(the boss) way just because U(boss) think U(boss) are right! ur(boss) logic is all work no play, ours is work hard play hard. We work smartly!
The boss just simply got this logic, work 18hrs a day is hardworking, work only 8hrs, U arent working enough. Even thou the work finished for both working hours are the same.

6. If the boss think Mr Tay's working attitude is bad, he (we) is more than happy to be sack! There are more jobs outside with much better working benefits + flexible working hours + apperication. But the fact that the boss wun sack him due to there is no way he cant find another so cheap labour!! The boss need him but yet flatten him as much as he could. Its a duplex, dun keep thinking without the boss, Mr Tay cant strive his own living. In fact, I think its the boss without Mr Tay, the retails and warehouse cant function normally.

S.T.U.P.I.D

I will still acknowledge him if I see him but that is all. I got nothing to say with unreasonable , double standard people. Dun make me argue and reason with U. We are easy going but that doesnt mean we can be and should be bully.

I know Mr Tay feel sad n hurt more than angry about holiday plans flop. He doesnt care much about the holidays but he feel sad that his hardwork had all gone down the drain. Not being appricated at all but only complains.

Hope he can get over it soon.

Sad..

Sad..
Hearing more n more of news friends around me getting preggy or wife is preggy with rabbit baby..
Sad for myself.
I think there is something wrong with us - physically n mentally.. Everything!!
Everything is just not right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let alone having the future genaration..
There isnt any passion at all.
Did I just think too much?

I am tired
I want to give up! Everything.. find my own happy self back..

我很想念那冷冷的假期

不知道为什么，到现在我还是很想念去年的墨尔本假期。
是因为那是我的第一个冬天假日吧。
又或则是因为那是我和他的至今单独的假期。

First trip on flight, was a trip to Taiwan with another couple friends. Expected cold weather however, we were not given. Its was humid, hot alothugh the day end at 5pm.
2nd trip was to Bangkok with a big batch of friends! Haha..
3rd trip was to Bangkok still, with slightly lesser people but still there are 4 of them.
4th trip was the Australia trip! Which we went out of Singapore for 10Days, just he and me. I missed the weather, the people, the things we see, the time we spent together. Just us! Nope, we din manage to bring another little one back with us. Too bad. We need more trips! Haha..
5th trip was to Bangkok again! Haha.. With another couple friends.

So yes! 我这一生人，到现在只坐过5次飞机！哈哈哈！more to come! I know as long as the world stay.

Of cos in between, there are a couple of day trips, 2D1N trips, needless to be say all were complete with friends!

I dunno when will be our trip. Dunno if he can apply ‘leaves’ and how long of ‘leave’ can he go for it.
I had yet to plan my blocked leave this year.
He was commenting going Perth in November to find his friend。
我只希望假期快点来。我需要透透气啊！

PS:
Sidetrack – we are going Malacca on 21/22 for 2D1N trip．His brother called last week to ask so we are working on both 14/15 since we are going on trip next weekend. We had plans for the 15th le. So he told him no, we arent. His brother commented: So u r taking leaves la, not swopping shift hor?!
What kind of stupid logic is this?
I ask him why he din go on and ask – So I got leave de huh? 1 year how many days huh? So I can applied long leaves lor? Can apply no pay leave or not? Then got MC or not? Got medical claims?!
What kind of nonsenese are these?!
Who he think he is?

R.U.B.B.I.S.H

Things do not always work out as planned.

Things get complicated.
People get complicated.

Things just doesnt work out as planned.
We will not know cos we arent GOD.
We cant predict and expect things to happen exactly the way we predicted.
We have to accept cos life still goes on, earth still turn, its doesnt stop at all.

Learn how to cope with it, get over it.
We cant be be living in gloomy mood, live in regrets and expect things will be back to what we expected. It will never happened.

This is what we can do to encourage ourselves to move on.
To treasure what we have and what is around.

Hope things just get better!

一个人住

其实我可以一个人住。
房屋代款，家里的开销我能还。
一个人住，不用洗、晒、收两人的衣。。
反正现在也没有很大的分别。

朋友

那天,有人喝醉了问我:你有好朋友吗?
我竟需思考: 有好朋友吗?
我当人家是，就真的是吗？
我回答：有吧？！
他问：有我的好吗？
我不假思索的回答：没有！

真的。。没有吧！！

I love this song! 王力宏「你不知道的事」《戀愛通告》主題曲完整版MV 全球網路大首播

蝴蝶眨几次眼睛
才学会飞行
夜空洒满了星星
但几颗会落地

我飞行 但你坠落之际
很靠近 还听见呼吸
对不起 我却没捉紧你

你不知道我为什么离开你
我坚持不能说放任你哭泣
你的泪滴像 倾盆大雨
碎了满地
在心里清晰

你不知道我为什么狠下心
盘旋在你看不见的高空里
多的是 你不知道的事

蝴蝶眨几次眼睛
才学会飞行
夜空洒满了星星
但几颗会落地

我飞行 但你坠落之际
很靠近 还听见呼吸
对不起 我却没捉紧你

你不知道我为什么离开你
我坚持不能说放任你哭泣
你的泪滴像 倾盆大雨
碎了满地
在心里清晰


你不知道我为什么狠下心
盘旋在你看不见的高空里
多的是 你不知道的事

我飞行 但你坠落之际
你不知道我为什么离开你
我坚持不能说放任你哭泣
你的泪滴像 倾盆大雨
碎了满地
在心里清晰


你不知道我为什么狠下心
盘旋在你看不见的高空里
多的是 你不知道的事

How hard did I/We try?!

I doubt i am fated to have a rabbit baby.
Been hearing friend A, B, C giving birth, been pregnant but no news from myself at all.
But to be fair, how hard did we try ine first place?!

Nope! I remember we started trying in June last year and since then till now, I can count how many times did we actually 'carry out the process' in order to conceive a rabbit baby. 4-5 times e most out of 9mths which includes 2 holidays trips.
How failure is it?
I think my irregular menes is a problem but when I told the gynae abt e nos of time in the length of months, he commented we aren't trying then.
How do I put it across?!
I already told him, even we aren't trying for baby, the freq isn't right either.
I think I m the problem. Too fat, not attractive at all beside we are also too stress n tired.
I already did watever I can..
I give up!!!

Frankly I am sad, disappointed and its hurts.
But What can I do?! I had make the steps, speak up, actions but stills its take 2 hands to clap.
The other hand isnt responsing to it. I cant force it.

新年快乐！

Its been some times since I last posted and CNY PH had actually passed us that fast.

This is the year of rabbit!! Hope everything will be fine for me, my family and all around me! :)

I hope the issue can be fix up ASAP to get things moving.

Everyone stay healthy in this year 2011!!

Looking back 2010

Today is the 1st last day of 2010.
After tmr, we will bid goodbye to 2010 and welcome 2011.
1 year just get past us quietly, unknowingly.

So what had I done / gotten this year?!

1. Got promoted finally in my 8 working year in the RED company
2. Senior left the team, leaving myself alone to fight against all new stuffs
3. First time taking commerical airline (not budget de!!) to Australia!! The trip that we had planned for that long and finally we were there.
4. During the Australia trip, first time experiencing winter! Cool! Love it! heehee.. (still nv see n feel snow before)
5. Get to know quite a nos of new friends thru Mr Tay.

That's all?! I cant think of much. Like nothing much achieve in this year..
Nvm, most impt is to learn to treasure whatever we have and simple is a kind of fortune too!

Wish all friends and family around me to be happy and healthy in the new year 2011!

人与人的关系

人与人的关系太复杂了， 也很累人。
累的让人想逃，远离人.
去享受不用在乎别人的感受，
不用替别人想，
不用担心的时候。
偶尔孤独，为何不可？！
孤独也可以是一种享受！

我怀念。。

八周年。。 这样吧了。。。

In the midst of quarreling:

Me: 你就是朋友大过天！
Him: 是啊！者样?!
Me: 八年前就不应该认识我，有朋友就好了啊！

对！就发生在12月1日。。八周年日。
I had nothing to say till 2 days later and on.. Dunno how long will it last.

T.I.R.E.D!

No Process how to have product?!

I am DONE!

I am DONE!
I realised I had been pushed to the limit!
Not exactly what happened but I had reached there -->
I cant stand it.
I feel like crying!
Feel weak, sad and helpless even worthless..
I cant tahan!!
I am TIRED!! mentally extremely!!

09/09/10 - 10/09/10 2D1N JB shopping outing! * LONG POST*

It is a rare chance! Our coll - Jac invited us to go Johor Bahru for a shopping trip with offer to sleep overnight at her place - actually her in law house.

09/09/10 - 6pm
We left office at around 610pm. We had planned to leave at 6pm sharp but being able to leave at 610pm is an achievement too! Haha.. Gerry's HB had offered to fetch and sent us to the custom. So nice of him!
We reached the Woodland causeway at around 645pm. Jac wasnt here yet. She called when we were on the way that she just left office! Thus, we cleared the custom and went down to the bus waiting area to join the queue. Actually we could have board the bus before she reached. Yes! We were all surprise! There were not of any long queue. Even Jac herself was very surprise! Haha.. She said we must have pray before we came.

around 730pm
We reached M'sia custom and yes.. no queue still. We cleared the custom together with Jac. Initially she was commenting that she shall wait for us at City Square while we cleared the custom. Haha.. Her wish wasnt granted.
Soon enough her husband came to fetch us. Hanks was introduced and we were brought to City Sqaure for dinner. He parked the car, we left the bags in the car and off we go. We were brought to Wan Sai - Hongkong cafe for dinner. I think it should be the same one as SG but taste wise is abit different. He treated us dinner, refuse to accept $$ from us. After dinner, he left to cafe with his laptop while Jac brought us to shopping.
I made the first purchase! Haha.. a tee shirt - RM$20
Then we went to Padini concept store where the ladies bought tee shirts at cheap rate from RM$9 to shoes at RM$69.90 I think . Gerry went to get shoes from Summit too. The last stop, Jac showed us the mooncake she got for her MIL. A very nice peranakan style packaging (photo in FB). Me and YK bought one set of the treasure box each instead.
By then most shops were closed! Haha.. In fact we were the last customers for the mooncake and they actually left with no cash and we were requested to pay via Credit cards. With that, Jac managed to get another 10% off for us. Nv know that She is a good bargainer!

around 10pm
Then we met up with her HB to get to the car. He brought us to this night bazar which is near to City sqaure but exact location, I am not sure. He said it is within walking distance from city sqaure. This night bazaar is open everyday but that night was super crowded as it was Hari Raya eve. It was just like our chinatown during CNY eve. There were lots of crocs shoes/sandals for sales at super cheap rates. Some we think shld be fake, some shld be auth which were rejected goods. Price were cheap! Gerry got a pair of sandals for her son (she said keep for future use) at only RM$5, I got a pair for Mr Tay at RM$50. It is the shoes kind. It come in the crocs cloth bag, not plastic bag!! Hanks gotten the same pair too. There wasnt any size 12 left so Gerry tried her luck at another store for a pair for her HB. We went back to the 1st store, she got it but no cloth bag however cos its over 12am and bargaining were so much easier she got hers at RM$45. We were saying that cloth bag cost RM$5! Hahaha...

10/9/10 - 12+MN
We went back to her inlaw place. It is a nice 3 storey high semi detached house. Her inlaw should be sleeping liao. We went up quietly to the 3rd storey where their bedroom and where we were be sleeping at. We presented her with our 'VISITATION GIFTS' - a box of poeny Jade Yam mooncake, 2 bottles of Moscato and some snacks for the doggies too! As usual, expected her reaction. Haha.. Then we drop the stuffs, change to shorts and off we were brought to eat supper. YES EAT AGAIN! haha... Its Ah piao wanton mee. This is the place where we come also for supper with my friends / Mr Tay's friends. I think location is behind the 大马巴刹. Purpose coming here also to show YK what is lok lok and the taste of it! haha.. Again he denied our $$ for the wanton mee and drinks. Luckily we managed to pay the lok lok.

2+AM - 3AM+
we were back at home finally! Waiting for our turns to bath. Jac opened a bottle of white wine which I cant recall the name of it. Only know its product of USA. It is very nice! smooth to drink and yet not too sweet. Then we went to bed ard 3+am, chasing her to sleep too. It had been a long time since I slept on a mattress on the floor with friends. Ma chaim camping sia! haha...

10/9/10 - 8+am
Woke up around this timing. Went down to see her dogs. So cute! I love the B-gal. Boy boy is too noisy liao. Wash up, change, went down to greet her in laws and off we go for breakfast cum lunch! Ba Ku teh at dunno where. I only know it is nearer to 2nd link. Nice one! with needle mushroom, tau pau, you tiao. They ordered
some pig trotters too. This meal cost RM$75 for 6 pax. She only accepted RM$10 from each of us.

11am
We reached the shopping centre around this timing. I dunno what is the name of the shoppin centre. Only know there is Jusco in it and also Daiso (which we never see leh). Bcos it was Hari Raya, JUSCO was not open till 1pm so we went for OLD TOWN coffee. We drank and chatted for a while before we go shopping, Jac's HB went off to the inlaw new place which is near the shopping centre. There we took our one and only pic during this trip! Haha.. It was insisted by Gerry for this pic to be taken otherwise no picture at all. We shopped various shoes shops, F.O.S outlets, brands outlets, had A & W for snack (too full for lunch), bought a hush puppy plush toy for Joe.


5+pm
Around 5+pm the HB came to fetch us to the new house.
Its a new estate I think. Quite a no. of units were still empty. It is like a condo area but filled with bunglow and semi D houses. There is only one in and out opening with security. There are swimming pools, playgound and basketball courts. Since there are facility, there is maintance fee - RM$170 monthly. There is also a jetty area where houses with their own speed boat can use. Jac said it lead to SG sentosa area. Their hse is a corner SEMI D. Heard the in law bought 2 untis but sold the other one when prices were good. It is very BIG as compare to their current living one. This one is a 2 storey SEMI D but with a huge garden area. The pouch area can park 4-5 cars (mind you their cars are all big cars - Toyota Harrier and Mitsuitshi Prejo). The in law bedroom is about 2 of my bedroom, excluding a walk in wardrode which is ard my bedroom size and there is still a toilet with a single pax jaccuzi tub! The balacony area is also ard my bedroom size! There we played with the new batteried operated motorbike and bicycle, walk around the estate. The FIL said he want to treat us dinner! So around 7pm, we went for dinner. It was quite a nice dinner where we had quite light hearted moments with the family.

9+PM
After dinner, we bidded goodbye and thanks them for their hosting and we were brought back to the old house to get our stuffs. We were sent back to city square where I did last min shopping before popping over to the custom. I bought another set of mooncake - the pernakan style set and a baby milo polo tee. We reached SG around 1030pm.
It was a tiring but super fun filling tip.
We were saying dun mind to go for another round but maybe just a day trip. Dun want to bother Jac and her family.

Total Damages:
1 tee
2 polo tee
1 pair of crocs shoes
2 mooncake sets
2 chewing gums
2 packets of pork floss rice crackers

Item revealed

Above picture credit to reebonz.com

Picture taken on my own.

It is actually men's series but I love zip around wallet.. Who cares?!

Random

I went movie with Mr Tay and 2 of his friends last friday. It is my first time to meet one of them, the one had seen but no conversation make.
I am trying to be as friendly as possible but still I feel out of place.
After the show, we went down the escalator and off they turn out of the building to smoke.
I feel being deserted! I dun like this feeling at all. It is not the first time such thing had happened. I realise whenever his friends are around, he forget about me! Yes! I agreed you tend to get crazy when all of your buddies are around but U cant be forgetting u got a wife and simply forget about her presense.
I am not saying that you cant get crazy, at least let me know. Not just turn n go MIA, while ur wife is there, beside u, not familiar with the rest and dunno where u had gone to?! Sound like an idiot right?!
I speak my mind to him that night after his friends left.
The journey back home remain silent and all the way till we reached home.
I do not know if he is angry or digesting what I am saying.
Anyway I dun feel that I am in any wrongs when I speak that.

On Sunday, we went to the airport to send off a friend of his - he is going USA for studies for 4 years!
With his big bunch of buddies again.
This time round, I feel that he just stick by my side, like not being himself. ( I think he is reminding himself of what I said on friday nite)
When they went out to smoke, he looked at me and I got to shoo him to go with them.

I wonder will he left me out for all their future gathering in order not to place himself in a difficult spot?
or rather he will not go for such gathering if he can sense the tendency that I will be neglected again.

I think he had mistaken my message across.

Hai.. I think we need more trial and error before we can strike a balance.

当我们同在一起！

每次吵架，我都会想如果我没有结婚， 现在应该有很多事都不一样吧。
没事干嘛找麻烦，自己一个人不是好好的过下去吗？！
可有时候，两个人在一起，没吵架时，就会很高兴的还好我找到了他!
其实两个人在一起，并不一定会吵架。
只要多点容忍，多点以大局为重，少以自我为中心，少一点坚持，架就吵不起来了！
我不一定对的！他也不一定得让我！
这点我的认真的学学！

A diff kind of investment.

I just bought something.
A kind of investment.
Shld be of good workmanship and lasting since material is leather.
It is not cheap but still at the acceptable level.
Furthermore there is interest free installament plan! Haha..

Reveal later when I receive it.. ;p

Holidays..

Ever since I am back from Aussie holiday, my holiday mood stays.
I had been trying to find out where else can I go, where/ which cards got the best deal.
Recently my friend suggested 2D1N Genting and I am very looking forward for it! (Got to wait till Oct10)

As I am looking thru the travels deals available, dont talk about those with super high travel fee, impossible to go trips,
there are actually many short trips that I can go - no need specially save up for it de.
Then, something stop me.. Not enough leaves! Haha.. Without that, Got $$ also cant go anywhere.
Another thing that bother me is Mr Tay. He cant go for leave as and when he apply for it. Basically his 'tao kay' will be unhappy if he go on leave too frequently.
Meaning I cant just plan a over the weekend trip as and when, We cant go anywhere also during long weekend when there is a PH cos usually that is his busiest period. Infact, whenever there is a PH, I am usually working with him. The most is we got half a day off.
I dun like that!!

I suggested places to go, during which period with consideration of is it possible for him to get away.
Reply: need to check with 'tao kay' if they have plans, can go, cannot go etc.
But when the 'tao kay and tao kay neo' going to travel, we were usually not being inform till the last min.
And even last min, we arent being inform, we are just being told that need to work on both weekends due to the fact cos they arent around.
Should not it be a mutual thing?
Ok I know its not the first time I am complaining abt his job liao but just need to rant! hahahaha...

Sometimes, I am dreaming how life will be different if he had accepted the Aussie posting..
Ok I am dreaming again.. Haha..


Updated at 19/8/2010
I am not dreaming after all. We went for dinner ytd nite. We were chatting over various issues and he told me he got a call again from RSAF asking him if he is interested to be back to the force! Oh my.. well we all know his answer but this phone did stir him up abit thus he was sort of complaining abt his current job status.

One month passed

Today marked 1 month since our Australia Holiday.
Hai.. I think our heart nv really follow us back home. Its still out there wondering.
Wondering when is the next holiday and where shall we go..

Well, still need to be back to reality and face the world after all.

Ytd, my MIL brought grandma over to our house. They started their nagging on us to give birth. Ohh.. my MIL started too! She even mentioned to get a maid, she can help to look after the maid as well as the baby.. I never thought that she will want to look after baby..

Oh my! That is another issue.
We shall settle that when I really got preggy! haha..

What do you call a day which ended late due to OT in office; hungry due to no dinner although got snack and yet still end up quarrel fiercely with ur other half?!
The main issue is, dunno what is the reason I am being shoot!!!

Great Holiday; now left with the memories..

Its a great holiday with lots of FIRST TIME experiences.
And now both of us are still experiencing withdrawal symptoms - holiday withdrawals. Haha..
I like Australia and I missed it more than going back to taiwan or BKK.
I even thought if I cant get a job to relocate there, can I go over to study instead? a year will do also! ahaha..

Below is a list of the FIRST TIME I had in this trip:

First time I boarded a normal flight instead of budget. To enjoy snacks even on a 2 hours domestic flight!
First time I went to an 'ang mo' country.
First time experiencing winter, although there isnt any snow, the cool and dry weather is indeed an experience. I love to be in jacket and yet does not sweat.
First time I feel that lip balm and moisturizer are so so impt; esp lip balm.
First time going on holiday for just the 2 of us. Previous tours were all done with friends other than the 1st Batam trip we had.
First time staying in an studio apartment that we can cook our own dinner!! Having red / white wine for almost every dinner at Melbourne cos wine there are simply so cheap!!
First time missing a flight! Haha.. Woke up an hour late, took a $50 (AUD$52 to be exact) cab to airport to realise that we were still late as luggage need to be checked in 30min before boarding time. We reached there at 830am where the flight is at 9.05am. Lucky us! The CSO managed to put us on the next available flight without any additional cost although she was mumbling: "no changes and amendment for sales fare!"
First time experiencing flight delay for almost 5 hours but landed us on the biggest commercial air plane currently - A380. It is really big and spacious. Cool!

I cant wait for the next holiday..
(comforting) telling myself to work harder for the next holiday although how I wish I can board on a plane right now to anywhere else except SG.
I fall in love in taking planes! Haha.. (This trip alone, we took 5 planes! To and fro and in between 3 domestic flights)

PS: PICs are up in Facebook!

Holiday is coming!

Its a long wait.. but its coming! Flying off tmr. Cant wait for it.

Check out Mel's weather, looks super cool! Love it!

But tuesday weather doesnt look good. We will be going Philip Islands to see Penguins but apparently its seems to be raining that day. Hope the weather turn better!

A gift from myself!!

A Present for myself - initally as birthday present. Now cum a reward to myself hardwork also.
Just nice size to replace my coach skinny. Got a bill compartment and behind there is a zipper for coins! Hee.. I like the bright green candy color!

A day full of happiness - Entry to Club 30

Its my 30th Bday celebration ytd!
For the day, I did not celebrate with Mr Tay.
He wasnt able to make it for the dinner so I had dinner with my 13 yrs friends or what one quoted as 知心好友！
Haha.. We were commenting that that verse is touching that we are class by him as 知心好友!

We went to Singapore Turf city Riding centre. Its a cool night as its rain heavily in the afternoon. Luckily its rain as they are preparing some events for today and thus the indoor venue was not available. We were to sit outside.

Its happy hours when we reached so I ordered a Lychee Martini while the rest all had Hoegarden full pint beer.
Food is good but location is ulu. If u r not driving, its not a convenient place to go.
Nevertheless, we had a great time!
*Photo at FB*
Just FYI the place will be closed for 2 month for YOG starting from mid of next month.

Besides my birthday, my coll named it as an auspicious day. Haha..
Firstly, Marina Bay Sand choose this day for their Grand Opening Ceremony so its must an auspicious day isnt so?!
2ndly, I gotten the confirmation letter from my Director - the promotion confirmation Letter. After working for 8 years, I got a promotion finally. It doesnt come easy, quoting one of the manager wishes: Its hard work being recongised. My senior was explaining to me, due to how big the company is, it is not easy to get a promotion here. Beside your own team, the promotion quotats need to be compete with the whole Finance department ( the dept I am in) and with agreements of other directors that this person is worth the recommendation for promotion. After which, the suggestion of promotion got to be approve by CFO and all the way up till the top level to consider it complete. Wow.. Sound like an achievement isnt it?! I wonder will I manage to stay till the next promotion. Hahaha...
3rdly, My laptop which was admitted to 'hospital' on monday due to hard disk crashed was being discharged! Haha.. I gotten a call from LG service centre that its really for collection. Mr Tay wasnt free ytd to collect it so collection was only done today.
I got a brand new laptop for usage now as ALL DATAS ARE GONE! After one year, I got a new laptop. Haha.. Self comforting!

Ytd concluded ending of my bday celebration but its also started another celebration - my promotion! ;)
Got to give a treats to my dear colls next wed.
Then perhaps over the weekends with my parents
And see when with his parents
And of cos in Aussie with Mr Tay! Haha..

Beside being happy regarding my promotion, its actually of a super mixed feelings too.
I am happy the moment I was given the letter but as the same time as she spoke to me, I know there are lots of shit behind to clear.
BUT...
With or without the promotion, the shit need to be clear so why dun I take the incresment and clear the shit.
Haha..

Oh.. and the celebration goes on..

I am glad that I had batch of good friends around me at this age of 30..
Although sometimes I will thought there isnt anyone ard when I am bored..
We are all just busy with our life and works.
BUT.. on my special days, they are always ard to celebrate with me!! :)

18/6/2010 - I will take it as my pre celebration since I received my bday gift from the mummies too! Dinner at 7th Storey steamboat at Wikie Edge with Danny, SY and Viv!

19/6/2010 - Surprise by Mr Tay at the Lows house! We had cake, very nice hokkien mee from Yishun, Dim sum and Fruits tarts. Mrs Low prepared watermelon too! Oh not forgetting Mr Tay got my fav bbq chicken wings!

20/6/2010 - Its a Father day dinner! But my dad din forget to wish me Happy Birthday too! Hee.. I bought Roast meat (Dad's fav), roast chicken and duck as requested by Mum home and she cooked 3 more dishes and we had a family dinner at home. After which, I got a box-misu from Mr Yong! Thks pal!

22/6/2010 - The Tans had booked me and Mr Tay for steamboat dinner at night. Hey Hey hotpot at Pomo centre. We shall see how.

23/6/2010 - Actual day! The poly gang had arranged for dinner. Although not all will turn up, I am sure it will be a fun one. I was thinking of OT initially but I think I shall just go for dinner. Haha.. To celebrate my special day of the year.

My Pre Birthday celebration

Last sat, as usual we were at Mr and Mrs Low's house for our MJ session.

Never did I thought that there will be a cake appearing out of no where. Haha..

It is Mr Tay's idea to surprise me! Celebrating me entering club 30!

Beside, the Lows bought me a helium balloon too! wow..

And on top of that, Mr Tay got me $200 Goldheart voucher - its our ROM anniversary cum Bday present! I get to go n get what I want! Smart of him! haha..

Every year He will plan and create surprise for me for my birthday. Cos he rem Me complaining him not being romantic. Haha.. IMO, he is still not cos all his planning involve others, not just a romantic nite with him BUT at the same time, it is the effort that counts!!

He liaise and co-oridnate with friends to get me the surprise and its more fun to celebrate with friends isnt it?!

Its tiring and not easy as I am around! Haha..

Thanks you Mr Tay!

PS: Pictures are in FB.

Thanks Mr Tay!!

Counting down to Aussie

Counting down 11 days to holiday! Woohoo..

All things should had been done. I din miss out anything bah?!



Make a checklist!



Before Flying off -

1. Visa - Applied and paid and of cos approved!

2. Luaggage - not pack yet of cos! Haha..

3. Mr Tay arranged his buddy to send us to airport on friday night! Haha.. After check in, can have dinner since flight is at 1030pm

4. Got to stock up some tibits and also toiletries for my sis who is coming over to look after the dogs. Bedsheet not done up yet too.





Melbourne -

1. Hotel - Booked!

2. Airport to hotel 2 ways transfer - by airtrain. Ticket to buy at counter since we arent sure what is the exact time we will reach + collection of luaggages etc

3. Great Ocean Road trip - booked

4. Phillip Island Day tour - booked



Brisbane -

1. Hotel - Booked

2. Airport to hotel 2 ways transfer - Booked!

3. Movieworld theme park ticket - Bought!



Others like references how to take their public transport, where to go all had been done and all necessary info had been printed out.



Now just got to finish up my work, done all necessary and updates ppl with what not done, which are the works to be covered will do..

Super lag..

Super long nv post blog liao.
Last week was on 5 days MC cos I went to extract the wisdom tooth out.
Been resting at home, went down to RP to change money for Aussie trip too.
I think my dogs are the happiest cos I am at home. Haha..

23 days more to our holiday. Counting down still..

Back to reality

Back from the weekend break.. Not actually a break, feel like more tired, rushing here n there.
We almost miss the ferry due to the idiot Batam Fast staff. She is suppose to amend the name of my friend on the boarding pass, she went to check out him. When she try to re enter, the system refused as the gate is closed!
I reminded her that our ferry is leaving at 920am, she just said she know.
She asked for help from her senior, that uncle just simply said, is not we dun want to help, its not system refuse so bo bian lor... 'Hello! in the first place, whose fault in resulting to such situation'
All act as if not their problem.
In the end, my friend got escot to clear the custom as the name is error!
He got special treatment, no need to q somemore.

We got check in at the new wing, first floor.. Its a swimming pool access room! haha.. ok lor cos our room balcony exit to the baby pool. But the old one is more comfortable, the new one, bed isnt very comfortable, the air con position isnt good resulting in room not cold enought.
We went to eat, shop and the massage at nite isnt that great. We think its due to its weekend and end of the day, the massagers are tired!

Next round shall try out Holiday Inn. Go there just relax and do nothing. Dun go to town also. Just stare blank! haha..

Thoughts

Wow.. Its been a long time since my last entry.
Nothing much to note bah.
Nothing major happening.

Recently took up Pliates for weight loss at HQ with 2 of my other colls.
Not bad after attending 3 lessons. Feel muscles aching after each session. Meaning its work! haha.. But must be diligent enough to do it at home too.

After class, we went for dinner and one was mentioning might be going for further studies. While in office, my senior ask if I had the intention of further studies, I told her not at the moment bah.
I had discussed with Mr Tay this question before: To study or Try for BB. He asked me to decide myself since its me; I decided to try one and see how. After all, studies can come later if I still want but to conceive doesnt mean if U like, U will get it. I am hitting the BIG 3 this yr after all.
Then I ask my senior back, arent she preparing for one since now she had completed her studies? She said she wants but will let nature take its course and at the same time, she said she has not have enough fun! There are too many places she want to go. Well, its after all God's will whether one is blessed with a child or not..

Btw, going Batam tomorrow!! Booked the Spa package, I need the massage! Rest n Relax! hee..

Then also deciding if getting a Iphone! OMG, eventually still giving in? No la, got staff sales leh, less $200-$350 of RRP. Mr Tay is super keen to get me one, I am the one still deciding to get or not to get..

UPDATES!!
I got my IPHONE! 16GB white, Paid $98 for it with trade in of Mr Tay's N85 with a value of $200. Still getting used to it.

忽然觉得。。。

看到中学的朋友在脸书的留言，让我想起当初她多么渴望生这个孩子。
她还蛮优秀的， 所以应该也希望孩子会像她吧。

然后再想想，我什么都不是，什么都没有，将来有孩子的话，孩子该像我吗?
身材-- 没有
样貌--没有
知慧-- 没有
口才--没有
运气--没有
手艺--没有
钱--也没有

当你什么都没有的时候，你不可能希望你的下一代会像你吧？！
哈哈！

那么有下一代来干嘛呢？！
人生已经很痛苦了，为什么还有下一代来到这个世界呢？

Life is tough and you know it the moment you are born.
You cry when you arrived - If you dun, doctor and nurses will make you cry
And others cry when you departed..

Should I ......

Read this!

Notice the last sentence:
根据动物与飞禽法律第42条清楚列明，若主人罔顾宠物的性命安全，或是对宠物造成不必要的痛楚，便可在虐待动物的罪名下被控，一旦罪成，可被判高达12个月监禁，罚款1万元或是两者兼施。
举报者则可获取部分罚金，作为奖金。

Well, the action will end the dog misery as well as getting rewards wor..

My new earrings

From Korea!
Isnt it cute?! I hope I will not be allergic to it..

人生没有不散的宴席！

After my opp neighbour sold their hse at high price and shifted in Dec09, another couple is going off soon.
They are the first couple I get to know in the forum online.
Me and the HB are from the same poly, same course and same company now!
Our hse was of the same structure and layout but theirs is at 10th Flr.

Its very nice of them to call and inform us that they are shifting.
Gotten more info from them:
1. Flat valued at $400K, Sold at $439K --> Cash $39K
2. Sold to China PR
3. 100% of the viewers are PRs, none singaporean. Currently Our blk Indian PRs quotas met! No more Indians liao!
4. Bought a 3 rm flat at Serangoon at $280K
5. With the earnings, the profit from selling the 5rm flat is enough to cover minor renovation and full payment of the 3 rm --> No loan required!!

I envy on that portion! No housing loan to worry about. No work also nvm liao.
Told Mr Tay about it. Actually we can do so too! Sell the flat and get a 4rm maybe (Actually I dun mind 3rm, No extra unoccupied room to LOAN ppl). With 4rm, we might not be able to be loan free but we can actually be re-finance and lower the housing loan of current. Why not?!
Why to shift, where to shift to?
Selling at high price when the market is good will result in getting a flat of high price too! Got to do some homework man before any action taken.

The correct timing

If the shop closing time is at 930pm.. and someone left the shop at 8pm.
Still consider leaving early? when someone is suppose to leave early on that day?!
If you cant make it on time, give a call. To let the other party know, prepared.
Instead of accuse later on when ppl got to make it for their appt also.

The whole world doesnt turn around you only.
U got things to do so does others.
Esp when time is limited..

Thoughtless ppl!

A nite out to Universal Studios at RWS with Mr Tay

Singtel offers their staff $20 per ticket to get into Singapore's latest attraction - Universal studio. Each staff is entitled to 2 tickets only so Mr Tay and I have a nite out there!

We are able to leave early at 4pm to prepare ourselves for the event.
Mr Tay got permission to leave earlier to fetch me and off we go!

We reached RWS at 5plus.. Went around to explore the areas. Feel great!! Been a long time since we went out like that! Got the Pak tor feel! haha.. Think we all are too busy working round n round liao. After work, no energy left liao.

We had dinner at Chilli before going in as he is hungry.
Great dinner!!

We took only "The revenge of the mummy" ride. Waited for 30min!
The ride is shiok esp we sat at the first row! Haha.. but its a little too short liao.

We paid $20 per ticket, we also only get to see $20 stuffs. Only ard 3-4 rides are open for us. And some of the areas are closed as well. To really experience every single part of the theme park, a full day with a full price ticket is still needed.
However I doubt I will ever step in again. To spend $66 on a weekday to enter is just way to expensive. Let alone $72 on weekend.

Bought some stuffs to keep as memories and that end our date!! hee Hee..

Photos are uploaded in Facebook liao!!

Long Long wait..

I set up the ticker to track how long more to our holidays..
Its a long wait man! Another 3 more months to go.
I tell myself, I shall need to process 4 mths payments and holiday will come.
I am done with Feb10 payout.. so 1 month down..

3 more month of payouts to do.
Sound shorter but in actual fact.. Its so long!!

Any tips for the Aussie trip?!

小人袜！

I think its origin from Taiwan, been hearing Show Luo Zi Xiang promoting it.

I got this from Pasar malam, 4 pairs for $10 so definately not original bah.. On the other hand, how shld original ones look like?! haha.. Nobody know..

Its cute! I got it in pink, black and grey. There are those with tailsmen on the head area. I find that too eee.. so i just get these normal one will do. Haha..

Step them with my feet and hope everything will be smooth for me this year!!

Air Tickets booked! Australia, here we come!!

Finally! We are going Holiday! Holiday! Holiday!

Air tickets for Australia are booked!!

Paid $914nett per pax. We are going Melbourne and Brisbane.

At Brisbane, we will go over to Gold Coast. Dont plan to visit all the world. I doubt I got the luxury to, my skin wun allow me. So will be going to the Warner Bro Movie World only! hee..

I already did some research on Melbourne & Brisbane on where to go, what to do.

Will complie on later dates.

My house is Rubbish Chute?!

Nice wardrode?!

Its was left behind by them.

She did mention about not bringing it over.

But in e end nv really state want or dun want.

Simply said will shift things slowly.

Even this and the computer table + monitor are left behind - no status till Mr Tay called up to ask.

Fine then! I took picture of it. Post onto Ebay and with 5 days, I got it sold at $80 with self collection!

Now I got $$ + space back!

Next is the computer table.. Mm..

A day out to the town - Suntec City

A rare weekday lunch with Mr Tay in the city!
Haha.. that is during the CNY period lor..

Secret Mission - Lou Hei in office!

The Old lady in office wanted to Lou Hei but no one is interested to lou with her. We gave all sort of reasons plus TL was on leave. So when we decide to lou ourselves, it got to be done secretly. Haha.. I bought the shredded radish, carrot and lou hei set. Instead of raw fish, we had pacific clams instead. Yummy! Its so nice! Big and juicy!!

Beside that, we ordered Domino pizza as lunch too!

Nice, crispy thin crust. Got half half fillings too.

Garlic Onion Ring

Cinnimon Bread

Bread stick - Garlic bread.

Jumbo Wings - which is so BIG that its shld be call MINI jumbo wings. haha..

Oh.. and in the end, she is on leave that day. Haha..

New Phone - Nokie E72 Bronze Brown

I got my new phone on 17th feb.
Gift by Mr Tay - Valentine day present requested by me! Haha..
Price is $348. trade in my E71 @ $200 so we paid $148.
Come with a free blue tooth head set too! Rather worth hor?!
Love the color - Bronze brown.
Love the camera too! At least sure much better than my E71 camera lor.
Haha...

Sleepy..

Wow.. last post is like last month. Haha.. Been Super busy..
First I was enjoying my CNY holidays then came back office to clear my stuffs which resulting me in OT every day till 10pm but still I din manage to clear all stuffs. Hai..
Its another OT day for me today. What to do?!

Many updates but not done yet.
Many pictures to show but its all at home's laptop.
Hope I rem tonight!

I cant sleep at nite but cant wake up on time in the morning.
Even at 1am, sometimes 2am, I am still wide awake. How?!
Am i too stress or what?!

虎年就要来临了！

In another 3 more days, Its Chinese New Year le!
Beside that, its also Valentine day! What a coincidence!
Doubt we are celebrating it.. All making use of the day to earn more money de..
Celebrating anniversary is more meaningful as well as economic. Haha..

That is fast.. We are coming to the end of the 2nd month of 2010 le.
Very fast hor?!
Every month rush like mad to finish up the work to meet the impossible deadlines.
And months after months.. times just goes.

House can said is almost all done in cleaning up - with the help of the part time cleaning auntie.
Mr Tay bought his clothes last week.
I got new clothes has not wear but hor.. color like not so suit leh.. either black or blue.. Thought of getting a pink one.. Cant find wor..
Shall see how.. If not shall one of the tee seldom wear or only wear once tee in pink on first day of CNY lor.

Wishing everyone:
虎年虎虎生威，虎年行大运！！

I am tired! Very very tired!

Monday work till 10pm - end up quarrel with someone who came to pick me up. That somebody said up right into my face LOUD and CLEAR that I am selfish. Cos he waited for 10min?! I dunno what time he reach. Yes, he did give me a call to notify me. I rebuked back - Does that somebody know anything abt the situation inside, how its work inside? Once called and I zoom out-That means I sit down there wait for the call only ah? I got nothing better to do ah? To stay in office rather than going home? Yes he is tired! Physically tired. I am not lor?
Try sitting in office for 13 hrs, facing the monitor.
I just got the feel that people think office job isnt tired at all.
(strangly that somebody was commenting that a friend - who is working as a stock trader, is very tiring cos he use alot of brain. I dun use brain lor. Sit down here, type and all things will be settle by themselves liao. Try been harass by the 2 oldies)

Ytd work till 1130pm! I declined ppl asking of need to fetch me or not. I got hands n legs. I can go home myself. Reached home, still got to keep clothes, fold clothes, wash clothes in machine and dry them. In e end who else do all that? Still me!
Silent is gold. Anyway I doubt I got any more energy to talk to someone.

I hope and seriously dun wan to work late today. I am left with one more product to go only. So should be no need le. I got no more energy left liao.

Beside this, the stupid old man indicate my sign in time as Late for the past few days.. I came in late yes I know. No need to indicate on the sheet. I wonder can he see the sign out time. BLIND!!

Interview done and New collars for the 2 fur babies

Went for the interview this morning.
Short one and I think I din do it well. Got tongue tied! Alamak.. Went speechless.
Nvm.. What to do?! Just hope that the part which I din get tongue tied 'impressed' them enough!
Got to take things as it is!



Meanwhile, bought Pepper and Yuki new collars from Reebonz.com. Rhinestone Bone collar!! First time getting leather collars for them. Shld be used for outing bah. At home, wear their normal nylon one will do. Haha..

Got a deal since they are already on discount on reebonz.com plus DBS cards got promo with them to get additional $15 off!

Nice leh! Pink for gal gal and Blue for pepper boy.

Info from web:

Features
A beautiful faux crocodile design on a genuine leather collar accented with crystal bones.Made out of high quality grain leather, silver hardware - Rhinestone buckle.
Size Chart:M - Length: 11-14 inch - Width - 3/4 inch

$37 each, after discount $59 for 2 or $29.50 each.

Hope its fit well. I agar on the size..

Good news and wish me good luck!

1. I got a call from Mr Tay last nite 9+. He said Aunt called him saying she will stayed till this month end. Then officially shifting over. Their things, She will shift over slowly. He told her to shift over the study table also. We got our free space back liao!

2. I applied for internal transfer to sales and planning dept last friday. I informed my boss this monday and had a 'talk' with him ytd. He said that his manpower over here is tighted and HR is still having the policy of not hiring if anyone to leave. Justification need to be done before to employ another staff. He added on saying nevertheless he encourage his staff to advance and move on for sure. Meanwhile he will check with HR to see if the policy still stand. Told him, if someone wants to leave for sure, if internal transfer fail, the person can just resign mah. Thus he will still need to justify if he need another staff. No diff de.
Anyway, I gotten the call from HR this morning! I thought will be an email. Interview at this friday at HQ. Like what SY mentioned, its a 50-50 chance. If they want to take me in but here not letting me go, its back to square one. Unless the other side is willing to wait.
Wish me Good Luck!!

Pepper is fine!

He had been the same for the past 2 days. Eating just like normal, still as greedy just that he was recommended soft food for these days to let the gums as use to in contact with food.

With that, he is in luck! I prepared mashed potato and carrot plus minced meat, hard boilded egg and boiled brocoli - all in mashed form for him. He had been enjoying but he did not forget to help Yuki to finish her kibbles whenever she cant finished. Haha..

He looked sad on wed nite when I fetched him back. I cant forget how he sneak his way out from inside of the clinic to the receptionist table area when he heard me talking to the nurse. So cute!!
The nurse commented that for his age, his health and coat of fur is good. And also he is a very playful dog! haha.. only abit noisy at nite when he stayed over. KPO doggie..

Ytd nite, he look much happier, Mr Tay agreed to it. And with that we are happy and less worry for him too.

Will continue good dental care for him to preserve his remaining teeth and also to hope Yuki get to keep her teeth as long as we could. And of cos good health!!

Pepper went tooth scaling and teeth extraction.

Actually he was sent down to the clinic last nite. To fast him and prepare for the blood test this morning then the procedure in the afternoon.
Cant help feeling worried, wonder if he feel cold, lonely, scare. Wonder if he will wonder where did we go? how come left him there? Haha... Think too much.

I thought I am the only one then realise I am not.
Last nite after Mr Tay came home after his meet up with his friends, he asked me when we were about to go to bed, " dunno if pepper is asleep liao or not?" " wonder what is he doing now"
Haha.. I am not alone!!

Anyway just gotten a call from the clinic that the procedures is done and they want to confirm on the timing I am going over to pick him up. I check with them how is he. The nurse said he is doing fine, I asked if he is still under the anthesatic, she checked and come back saying no he is awake le. Haha.. Must be kpoing ard, bio-ing the pretty nurses over there.

Soon I will get to see him!! count down in ard 2 hrs time.

Doctors' outing day

I meant yesterday.

I noticed pepper had been drooling out of suddenly since last wed. Checked on him, cant find anything. But he smell badly.. worse than his normal bad breath. So i decide to bath him on sat morning since there are 2 helpers at shop helping Mr Tay.

Checked - his hind teeth are decaying. One is shaking badly resulting in gum bleeding too. No wonder he keep drooling. So called up vet to make appt to bring him down on sun.
But at the same time, its does not affect his fav - eating at all. Just that he eat abit slower but still faster than Yuki.

Sunday morning, got a msg from Ms Tay. Senior Mr Tay's leg is swollen. Asking if Mr Tay can fetch him to see doc. Conicidencely, Mr Tay's leg also swollen due to gout.
So in the end, we went to fetch Senior ard 12+pm. I called up the vet to push the appt to a later timing at 340pm instead. So both senior and junior went to treat their leg.
After done, sent his parents back home, we went back home with me going up to bring Pepper down to bring him to his appt.

Vet said that its a serious case of ________ (I din manage to catch the name). Tooth scaling is needed to clean up and also to extract all decayed tooth. As Anthesatic is needed, vet recommend us to let him do a blood test to check on his health, how his organs are function to minimise risk of the usage of anthesatic. I dunno how much is the blood test but we had decided to go ahead with the blood test. To be safe. Pepper was given an injection and 14days of Antibotic starting today. So ytd, We spent $120 on this visit - consulation, injection, medication plus a bottle of oral drinking water additive.

Will be sending him in tmr nite to stay overnite at the clinic as he need to fast for the blood test. Then fetch him back on wed evening after his tooth scaling. We were told that his tooth scaling cost $120, dunno how much the blood test will be.

I just hoped that he will be fine after the tooth scaling!

Btw, we thought he is heavy.. He weighs only 7kg! haha..

Can eat more!

Really..

Silent is Gold..

Happy New Year 2010!!

Its a brand New year! Hope everything will be fine this year and its will be great!

I received my New Year present early this morning! Haha..

The bag I ordered actually arrived in SG on 2nd Jan but was only delivered today since this is the first working day..

Its bigger than I expected but its really nice!

I am loving it so far.. ;p

PS: color not nice in pic due to my stupid E71 camera..

Differences

Had an arguements again this morning.

We just could not agree on some views. I wonder is it my way of expression is wrong? or he simply cant get what I am trying to say.
At the same time, I know he is thinking the same thing - I just cant get him.

To him, he had been repeating this - I am just trying to argue my ways to win. I feel that due to this fact, he doesnt listen to my any explanation cos to him, its just another BULLSHIT that I am trying to get myself win the arguement.

He will just simply end it by saying forget abt it.. U WIN!

He said next time none of his business, he shall not speak. No speech, no arguement. I told him, no talk.. no differences, no quarrels.
He said he is tired..
Then I am not is it?
To need to take in ppl who I dun want to in my hse
To settle things whenever there is arguments between the olds n the not so young.
To be the bridge when needed to.

Just because I am the woman?! Then I dun want to be. U know how much brain cells are wasted each time?!

At some times, I wonder.. why are we so different? Really opp attracts?

Whenever we are together the whole day, there tend to be arguement. Esp sat, I hate it when the arguement start in the morning. For the whole day, there will be silent, black face and ignore. Me to him or via versa.

We cant stay together for long hours facing each others? That is true unless we are on holiday.

Sometimes I feel sad that our r/s is like that. sweet in a way but maybe not totally the way I wanted.
Our lifes are getting boring I think. work, work, work, work... from Mon to Sat. Sunday will usually be wake up late, lunch, hsework, to my mum place. Ended..
I hate his job!

Dun talk abt childern.. I really think no help with having childern. Perhaps more arguements, differences in treating, raising the kids.

Perhaps Silent is the real gold.

Merry Post Xmas!

Merry Post Xmas! Haha.. I am late.. very late.
Due to the holidays I took mid month, I am getting my retribution now - rushing to finish up work before mth end and also.. 2009 coming to an end.

No Xmas countdown for me.
We went to his Aunt's hse at Punggol, they were having BBQ. Mainly just join in, chit chat and its Christmas liao. No countdown, no screaming, yelling shouting.. and we went home. Haha...

I slept thru on xmas day - managed to steal time, nv go down to where I am suppose to. He went alone and came back ard 4pm.
We were meeting Mr and Mrs 'Mo', KS, Ex Ms *hub and her HB for steamboat dinner at 7th Storey at Wikie Edge. For the price, its good! We paid $15.80nett + $0.30 for wet towel - we got buffet chilli crabs - crab meat not too good btw but 'gong' is big. For the price, its good enough. Plus they got man tou, desserts, vege are buffet style too. Where else for meat wise, its ala cart. We ordered and they served. Oh come with free refillable drinks too. Isnt that worth?! Had a great time eating.
After which Mr 'Mo' actually booked a apartment at Citadines which is just upstairs. He was clearing his allowances for yr 2009. So we tabao starbucks coffee, went out to the apartment. Not bad wor.. We played Wii! Haha.. First time, had a great time too!

Boixing day - working as usual since its a sat. Supposed to meet Mr and Mrs 'Mo' for MJ at the apartment but Mr 'Mo' down with stomach upset wor. So Mr and Mrs Tan came over instead. We played till morning ard 7am with Mr Tay winning ard $60+ for a game of $0.20, $0.40. He is super lucky!!

Sunday - Ms BKK is back!! Sunday ended fast as we woke up at only 2pm+. After lunch, bath the dogs, we went down to Tampines. With that, our long weekend is over..

Next long weekend - counting down at Lunar with Mr Panda, Ms BKK and some other friends. Afterwhich, its working days.. days after days 1/1/2010-03/1/2010!! Its another retribution - Mr Tay pay back time for his holiday at BKK..
What a way to start a new YEAR!

Back from Holidays..

Back from BKK, in fact back to work liao.
Got to face the same black square box again.

We been waiting for so long for the holidays but the 4 days past just like that.
No choice la.. Happy times passed fast.
Photos are uploaded in Facebook.

Din buy alot this time, nothing much to get exactly. More of eating n eating n eating. Haha..
And also got quite a bit of toileries. Haha.. Cheaper there mah..

Then when we came back, heard 2 pieces of so call good news from Ms Tay.
1. She is shifting back. She had a talk with Senior Mr and Mrs Tay sometimes back. Its surprising that Senior Mr Tay actually talk things out with her.. in calm manner. Anyway, whatever, she got to bow her head cos she needed funds to continue her Uni studies.
She shld be shifting back this coming sunday.

2. Auntie should be shifting out to Fernvale - her ex husband's hse. Ever since her ex passed away, I had yet to see her 2 childern. It had been 3 weeks liao. They had been staying at Fernvale. Heard from Ms Tay, her ex MIL had been asking to shift over too ( i dunno what is the reason). Partly to take care of the eldest son(from her ex's previous marriage) too. Heard that the r/s between the eldest son n her isnt bad after all. She mentioned to Ms Tay that since the 2 childern arent coming back too so she might as well shift over there too.

Mr Tay was telling me.. so after long wait, its coming to an end..

I hope so cos for part 2, it isnt confirm.

Simply Selfish..

2 days ago.. marked the 7th year Mr Tay hold my hands but no celebrations, no gift, nothing.
He in fact forget abt it.
Week before, he was telling me that he will be going dinner with his 'friends' (a grp of ppl know at the shop - 1 being a 60s+ customer who eventually now go to the shop everyday, eat lunch, talk rubbish, 1 is the shop owner of opp cake shop, a fews others of ppl either live ard there or friends of friends). He simply forget abt it. Being a Female, I will be lying to say I DUN MIND.

When I remind him, he look at the calender and said he agreed to the dinner without knowing the date. That mean, he cant back out. FINE!

Who know due to unknown reason, his right eye got swollen in the middle of mon mid nite. Eye Mo doesnt help. He got himself eye wash on monday, doesnt help at all. So tuesday he went to see doc as such I applied FFL. Only thus, we get to lunch together at HG mall Ajisen. Then he sent me to office and he went back to work before going out with them at nite.

I began to hate his job. When his mum told me abt the reason why they got this shop and him to run the shop long ago, I din really mind the reason but now I think I do.
She said: is to tie him down. So that he got no time to go out with his friends - in her eyes, those no good friends ( come to think of it, she nv mentioned such things abt 2nd master's friends, she sometimes said the same things to some friends of Ms Tay).
Never did she realise, he got no times for me either. I am always alone, eat dinner alone, alone at home ( of cos not now). Mr Tay only get to knock off early on Tuesday and Friday - not too early either, leaving work place at least 730pm, reaching here at ard 8pm.
What time do people usually meet for dinner? 7pm. Hai..

Then due to the limit time he had, if got friends jio, he will meeting his friends for dinner or drinks during these 2 days. There goes my weekday chance.
I am stuck in the shop on sat.
Leaving Sunday for us to really spend together, to pack house, to do all sort of things that are suppose to be done.
I HATE IT!!

I cant blame him for meeting with his friends cos that are his only time too to catch up with his friends.
His parents' thinkings are simply selfish!
I remembered her reason of asking us to get a 5room flat - so that he got no excess money in CPF to do investment. What does she know?! That is one of the way to make ur money in CPF to grow.

Recently she called up the worker in shop and asked her to pass the msg to Mr Tay to tell his dad himself that we are going BKK next week. She said he had never agreed to the trip beforehand. Ya right, we told him like 5mths beforehand. He has ample time to plan man power. Not as if we are telling u this week that next week we are flying. Basically they just simply ignore abt it as to them, it is simply not important. Never care about other people feelings de. They want to work 24/7, 365days that is their problem, their thinking. They cant expect and want people to think just like them. I repeat: We work to live, not live to work!

Mr Tay said he heck care. They better 'fire' him off if they arent happy about it.
Seriously I hope that too. Their thinking is if not for the shop, what can he work for a living?
Oh Pls.. he had spent 7 years in Air force, he got a diploma in Mechincal engineering. As long as willing to work, wun die de lor. And I dun see any reason why he cant get a much better job then.
Not as if they are paying damm high salary?! No benefits, nothing!
Even he cant get a similiar salary, there will be at least 10 days of AL, medical leaves etc lor. And then yearly got increasment, got variable bonus or at least AWS or special bonus. And definately more rest time also!

I was thinking this time round if such things going to happen again, I will use recorder to record down every single word his dad said. That its them who 'sack' him, not he choose to leave himself. When they go around telling other people how unfilial this son is, choose to leave blah blah blah.. I will make sure the recording be heard by every single one. Haha..

**EVIL ME** I just feel that they deserve it!

The earth dun turn because of them only and they arent the law simply because they are the parents.

Finally they are back!

Radio Online is finally back!

Can listen to it while working leh cos the reception here is horrible.
Basically no station can be received.

So happy!

Listening to YES 933 now!