2 days ago.. marked the 7th year Mr Tay hold my hands but no celebrations, no gift, nothing.
He in fact forget abt it.
Week before, he was telling me that he will be going dinner with his 'friends' (a grp of ppl know at the shop - 1 being a 60s+ customer who eventually now go to the shop everyday, eat lunch, talk rubbish, 1 is the shop owner of opp cake shop, a fews others of ppl either live ard there or friends of friends). He simply forget abt it. Being a Female, I will be lying to say I DUN MIND.
When I remind him, he look at the calender and said he agreed to the dinner without knowing the date. That mean, he cant back out. FINE!
Who know due to unknown reason, his right eye got swollen in the middle of mon mid nite. Eye Mo doesnt help. He got himself eye wash on monday, doesnt help at all. So tuesday he went to see doc as such I applied FFL. Only thus, we get to lunch together at HG mall Ajisen. Then he sent me to office and he went back to work before going out with them at nite.
I began to hate his job. When his mum told me abt the reason why they got this shop and him to run the shop long ago, I din really mind the reason but now I think I do.
She said: is to tie him down. So that he got no time to go out with his friends - in her eyes, those no good friends ( come to think of it, she nv mentioned such things abt 2nd master's friends, she sometimes said the same things to some friends of Ms Tay).
Never did she realise, he got no times for me either. I am always alone, eat dinner alone, alone at home ( of cos not now). Mr Tay only get to knock off early on Tuesday and Friday - not too early either, leaving work place at least 730pm, reaching here at ard 8pm.
What time do people usually meet for dinner? 7pm. Hai..
Then due to the limit time he had, if got friends jio, he will meeting his friends for dinner or drinks during these 2 days. There goes my weekday chance.
I am stuck in the shop on sat.
Leaving Sunday for us to really spend together, to pack house, to do all sort of things that are suppose to be done.
I HATE IT!!
I cant blame him for meeting with his friends cos that are his only time too to catch up with his friends.
His parents' thinkings are simply selfish!
I remembered her reason of asking us to get a 5room flat - so that he got no excess money in CPF to do investment. What does she know?! That is one of the way to make ur money in CPF to grow.
Recently she called up the worker in shop and asked her to pass the msg to Mr Tay to tell his dad himself that we are going BKK next week. She said he had never agreed to the trip beforehand. Ya right, we told him like 5mths beforehand. He has ample time to plan man power. Not as if we are telling u this week that next week we are flying. Basically they just simply ignore abt it as to them, it is simply not important. Never care about other people feelings de. They want to work 24/7, 365days that is their problem, their thinking. They cant expect and want people to think just like them. I repeat: We work to live, not live to work!
Mr Tay said he heck care. They better 'fire' him off if they arent happy about it.
Seriously I hope that too. Their thinking is if not for the shop, what can he work for a living?
Oh Pls.. he had spent 7 years in Air force, he got a diploma in Mechincal engineering. As long as willing to work, wun die de lor. And I dun see any reason why he cant get a much better job then.
Not as if they are paying damm high salary?! No benefits, nothing!
Even he cant get a similiar salary, there will be at least 10 days of AL, medical leaves etc lor. And then yearly got increasment, got variable bonus or at least AWS or special bonus. And definately more rest time also!
I was thinking this time round if such things going to happen again, I will use recorder to record down every single word his dad said. That its them who 'sack' him, not he choose to leave himself. When they go around telling other people how unfilial this son is, choose to leave blah blah blah.. I will make sure the recording be heard by every single one. Haha..
**EVIL ME** I just feel that they deserve it!
The earth dun turn because of them only and they arent the law simply because they are the parents.