What is the meaning of life?
Are we living the life of others or ourselves?
Why must we take in people's feelings, reactions, remarks into consideration when we are living our life?
Who should judge? On what basis are they judging on?
If we are doing things, not of the so called 'Normal' ways, meaning we are living life correctly?
Who deem it as right or wrong?
Comments!! Only know how to comments!
Tell me who is the one bearing all the consequences?
When things happen, will I hear " i dunno hor.. that is your issue, your problem. U got to solve it yourself!'
Since I got to solve things myself when things happened, then why cant I decide the kind of life I want to live?
Am I accountable to myself only?
U never see changes doesnt mean people are not trying.
Pass or fail, success or failure, I need not to let u know either because
IT IS MY OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You do not own me anything neither do I.
I pay for myself of all things and absolutely I do.
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Monday, September 30, 2013
Confirmed!
Confirmed!
He is back to work for his parents since last week.
I told him I will not go back woodland to work every weekend.
I rather stay at home to do up the housework.
I miss... Miss my alone time.. to do things at my own pace, as I wish..
Tuesday, August 06, 2013
Stress + Stress + Stress
I realised I am a person who take stress more than I can without realising. I had been thinking that I can managed but in actual fact, I cant. My body is complaining then I realise it. Suffering from hormones imbalance, Gynea said stress is a major factor. Result from that --> weight gain / loss, hair loss.. For me, weight gain and hair loss. why not weight loss then?!
My friends who recently are into numerology, took my birth date to do some calculation. Both of them concluded, the 'numbers' in my life show that I had everything needed in my life, not lacking anything but I am a very stressful person. Everything, anything I can stress myself up. This is quite true, I thought i am handling but exactly I had more than I can handle. The galfriend forwarded me a picture, stating Cortisol, the stress hormone, that is what the brain stimulates its release in response to physical or emotional stress.
The more stress, the higher your cortisol fluctuates and the more stressed you are.
Higher and prolonged level of cortisol in the bloodstream have negative effects such as
- Aging and catabolic metabolism
- weight gain, heart disease and diabetes
- impaired immune system
- gastrointestinal porblems
- mood swings and depression
- Fatigue and insomnia
- Sking aging and wrinkling
Then asking me not to be so stress. Relax myself!
reading from the negative effects, I think i have like 3 of them - weight gain, mood swings n depression, fatigue and insomnia.
When they are mentioning to us, Mr Tay strongly agreed that I am so and he said he had been partly responsible for my weight gain and that I am so stress.
Really, dealing with his family and external families are stressful.
I dunno if being closely knit is one of the reason or it actually isnt.
He had 3 day MC due to sprain of legs at work. His lady boss aka his aunt commented to relatives. We dunno her tone of mentioning but she commented, people commented. His grandma called, aunt called, dad called and his mum called. Some saying maybe you arent suitable for the job, some call to ask him to reconsider if to continue with the job cos people are commenting that he took 3 days MC..
I dunno what is the motive, to concern or comment.
I laughed as I sit down there recalling what they said --> I told him, if today he is still working with his dad, getting a 3 days MC will have the same result. His lady boss aka his mum will comment to relatives as same things happened --> ppl starting calling, his dad might call me for a talk ask me to tell him to reconsider to think if he want to work, if so work properly. NO WONDER they are a one big FAMILY! hahaha...
Anything, everything they just have something to comments. 人言可畏。人不讲话真的会死.
work comment
too fat, go on diet comment
no kids better quickly have one comment.
My life or their life?! they did not realise their so called concern went overboard. end up stressing us up!
I told him to stop all these, maybe he just had to work some where out there with no contacts to any relatives, best work oversea! Nobody come n bother. Only then I will be stress free!
If he had done so earlier, he might have kids now. NO need to suffer here together with a hormones imbalance me!!
My friends who recently are into numerology, took my birth date to do some calculation. Both of them concluded, the 'numbers' in my life show that I had everything needed in my life, not lacking anything but I am a very stressful person. Everything, anything I can stress myself up. This is quite true, I thought i am handling but exactly I had more than I can handle. The galfriend forwarded me a picture, stating Cortisol, the stress hormone, that is what the brain stimulates its release in response to physical or emotional stress.
The more stress, the higher your cortisol fluctuates and the more stressed you are.
Higher and prolonged level of cortisol in the bloodstream have negative effects such as
- Aging and catabolic metabolism
- weight gain, heart disease and diabetes
- impaired immune system
- gastrointestinal porblems
- mood swings and depression
- Fatigue and insomnia
- Sking aging and wrinkling
Then asking me not to be so stress. Relax myself!
reading from the negative effects, I think i have like 3 of them - weight gain, mood swings n depression, fatigue and insomnia.
When they are mentioning to us, Mr Tay strongly agreed that I am so and he said he had been partly responsible for my weight gain and that I am so stress.
Really, dealing with his family and external families are stressful.
I dunno if being closely knit is one of the reason or it actually isnt.
He had 3 day MC due to sprain of legs at work. His lady boss aka his aunt commented to relatives. We dunno her tone of mentioning but she commented, people commented. His grandma called, aunt called, dad called and his mum called. Some saying maybe you arent suitable for the job, some call to ask him to reconsider if to continue with the job cos people are commenting that he took 3 days MC..
I dunno what is the motive, to concern or comment.
I laughed as I sit down there recalling what they said --> I told him, if today he is still working with his dad, getting a 3 days MC will have the same result. His lady boss aka his mum will comment to relatives as same things happened --> ppl starting calling, his dad might call me for a talk ask me to tell him to reconsider to think if he want to work, if so work properly. NO WONDER they are a one big FAMILY! hahaha...
Anything, everything they just have something to comments. 人言可畏。人不讲话真的会死.
work comment
too fat, go on diet comment
no kids better quickly have one comment.
My life or their life?! they did not realise their so called concern went overboard. end up stressing us up!
I told him to stop all these, maybe he just had to work some where out there with no contacts to any relatives, best work oversea! Nobody come n bother. Only then I will be stress free!
If he had done so earlier, he might have kids now. NO need to suffer here together with a hormones imbalance me!!
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
changes
Only now then I realise how stupid n incapable I am.
People thought I knew alot but in actual fact, those that I know are insufficient for me to get a professional job. Those are all crap knowledges.
Oh my! I should really change my mindset, my views of things to get things done, to get what I want. Changes hurt but in order for the changes to take place, sacrifices are necessary, I need to accept e sacrifice.
Take a step forwards, at least be courage enough to make the first step. You never try, you never know.
People thought I knew alot but in actual fact, those that I know are insufficient for me to get a professional job. Those are all crap knowledges.
Oh my! I should really change my mindset, my views of things to get things done, to get what I want. Changes hurt but in order for the changes to take place, sacrifices are necessary, I need to accept e sacrifice.
Take a step forwards, at least be courage enough to make the first step. You never try, you never know.
W.A.I.T.I.N.G
I am waiting!
Waiting hard for the day to come, to throw the letter into his face and see his reaction.
To catch them unaware, unprepare. To see how they can deal with the situation then. Hahaha...
Who ask them to take people for granted. If they do not wake up soon, one by one things will happened.
Continue to leave those useless but mouth full of sweet words people around them.
Pray that my birthday wishes will come true!!
Waiting hard for the day to come, to throw the letter into his face and see his reaction.
To catch them unaware, unprepare. To see how they can deal with the situation then. Hahaha...
Who ask them to take people for granted. If they do not wake up soon, one by one things will happened.
Continue to leave those useless but mouth full of sweet words people around them.
Pray that my birthday wishes will come true!!
Monday, June 03, 2013
Monday, April 29, 2013
Cannot Understand
It had been 3 months since we stayed here. Good one! We loved!!
Mr Tay is in his 2nd month to his new job, so far so good..
His r/s with his family esp his mum got better, no crush in work = peaceful mother and son r/s. His mum commented last week that his dad has not visited the new place since then till now.
Thus he arranged no work on last sat, planned for his parents visit and then to dim sum buffet at Thomson Plaza, Peach Garden, also celebrate in advance for mother's day/
End result -- His dad do not want to eat, good intention = dun want him to spend the $$, bad intention which I have = the elder one isnt happy with the younger one for his leaving of work thus dun want the interaction.
So 1 down, we thought then we go ahead with his mum and sister + BF then. Who know the sister said in that case she will stay home to accompany dad (like real) + BF still working at site. So he called up his mum. In e end, the mum is somewhere settling something with her sister, not coming over, cant go makan too! Nobody bother to call and tell and let us make all the preparation + booking etc. Its spoilt our weekend!
I cannot understand why is it so difficult to sit down together for a meal. Talk about old traditions, who isnt giving people chance to practice it. Why must make life so difficult for others?
If the same situation will to happen at my side, I believe we will have gone for the meal and have a happy time.
I cannot understand why there are things more important to family times. Actually I do not understand alot of their concepts anyway. Why bother?!
Mr Tay is in his 2nd month to his new job, so far so good..
His r/s with his family esp his mum got better, no crush in work = peaceful mother and son r/s. His mum commented last week that his dad has not visited the new place since then till now.
Thus he arranged no work on last sat, planned for his parents visit and then to dim sum buffet at Thomson Plaza, Peach Garden, also celebrate in advance for mother's day/
End result -- His dad do not want to eat, good intention = dun want him to spend the $$, bad intention which I have = the elder one isnt happy with the younger one for his leaving of work thus dun want the interaction.
So 1 down, we thought then we go ahead with his mum and sister + BF then. Who know the sister said in that case she will stay home to accompany dad (like real) + BF still working at site. So he called up his mum. In e end, the mum is somewhere settling something with her sister, not coming over, cant go makan too! Nobody bother to call and tell and let us make all the preparation + booking etc. Its spoilt our weekend!
I cannot understand why is it so difficult to sit down together for a meal. Talk about old traditions, who isnt giving people chance to practice it. Why must make life so difficult for others?
If the same situation will to happen at my side, I believe we will have gone for the meal and have a happy time.
I cannot understand why there are things more important to family times. Actually I do not understand alot of their concepts anyway. Why bother?!
Finally home of our own.
Pen down this post like in the first week of Feb13 via mobile but its never get post out! ah!!
Stayed there for almost a week.
Stayed there for almost a week.
Not too bad!
Lots of things to do, lots of unpacking to do. Still got lots of boxes and CNY is coming!
Target to clear 2 boxes per day.
Monday, January 28, 2013
An chuang done!
An chuang done.
Now waiting for 30th shift in. Gas cant turn on 30th.. got to find way to cook upon shift in as part of the shift in procedure.
Now waiting for 30th shift in. Gas cant turn on 30th.. got to find way to cook upon shift in as part of the shift in procedure.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Saturday, January 19, 2013
Updates on 160113
Display rack divide the space into 2. Hope the overall result will be good.
Wednesday, January 09, 2013
Updates - 091013 again on 100113
FSM had advised shifted in date to be on 30th Jan.
An Chuan got to be done on 27th Jan which is a sunday and I am so glad it is a sunday!
Current stage of house:
1. Floor and wall tiles are fully up and done.
2.Delivery of sanitary wares was either ytd or done today. They will be fix up once delivered. Fixed up!
3.Parquet flooring delivery date is tomorrow and then will be laid. After that, we need to wait for a week for it to dry thus no work to be done in bedrooms till next thurday.Laying done. Pending for polishing next week
5.Plaster ceiling will be done up today. Pending gas pipe installation tmr.
6. Delivery of lighting next tuesday and fix up.
7. Furniture and bedding will be delivered on 22nd Jan 2012.
Current pending outstanding that I am not sure of the dates are:
1. Painting work. Color choose but dunno when will it be paint
2. window grill - not choose
3. Main door and bedroom doors not choose
4. Curtains not choose
5. Carpentary work confirmed but measurement not taken and work not commence if I am not wrong.
6. Plants have not get.
An Chuan got to be done on 27th Jan which is a sunday and I am so glad it is a sunday!
Current stage of house:
1. Floor and wall tiles are fully up and done.
2.
3.
5.
6. Delivery of lighting next tuesday and fix up.
7. Furniture and bedding will be delivered on 22nd Jan 2012.
Current pending outstanding that I am not sure of the dates are:
1. Painting work. Color choose but dunno when will it be paint
2. window grill - not choose
3. Main door and bedroom doors not choose
4. Curtains not choose
5. Carpentary work confirmed but measurement not taken and work not commence if I am not wrong.
6. Plants have not get.
Monday, January 07, 2013
Furniture shopping
Friday, January 04, 2013
Updates on 030113
Pending floor tiles for common toilet, yard n kitchen, parquet for bedrooms.
Aircon units are up but din take pictures as i forget and anyway its too dark.
Had a quarrel with him over e FSM, choosing of move in date. I shld have swallow my wordd now and dun talk things back but too bad... He cant let go even till this morning. I doubt he will be ok tonight. Fine then. I shall keep my mouth shut. Nothing out of my mouth seems right anyway. I will SHUT UP!
Wednesday, January 02, 2013
Last day of the year 2012
Its shopping time for us. Just nice Mr Tay not working so we went to Alex's shop for lighting shopping.
Spent ard $2k on e whole house lighting, with dunno how many down lights n led lights. All i rem is kitchen and both toilets will be using led lights. We need led lights in both toilets partly due to we are advise to always leave a light on in each toilet.
We choose the round crystal light for dinning, e round cane one for living room. The picture ahow a darker shade, i think ours is in cream color. The below one is for bar top table which will be slimmer n in 5 pendants instead of as show as I forget to take a pic at the shop and i cant find a same one online.
Delivery will be on 15Jan. Furniture delivery is on 22Jan so i think we are only ready to shift
by end of the month
Spent ard $2k on e whole house lighting, with dunno how many down lights n led lights. All i rem is kitchen and both toilets will be using led lights. We need led lights in both toilets partly due to we are advise to always leave a light on in each toilet.
We choose the round crystal light for dinning, e round cane one for living room. The picture ahow a darker shade, i think ours is in cream color. The below one is for bar top table which will be slimmer n in 5 pendants instead of as show as I forget to take a pic at the shop and i cant find a same one online.
Delivery will be on 15Jan. Furniture delivery is on 22Jan so i think we are only ready to shift
Monday, December 31, 2012
Updates on 30 dec 2012
The tiles are delivered on 27 dec 2012 thus the work progress is consider fast.
The wall tiles of both toilets are up. Living room has only one line of tiles up. Pending floor tiles are not done. All electric wires had been tear down, waiting for re wiring. Coming up will be New Year holiday, work will pause again.
Bedroom parquet yet to choose. Dunno when will that be.
Btw we went celini just now and confirm the promo set.
$2998, we got a L shape sofa, 4 chairs + dining table, coffee table and a tv console. We add in $89 to get a bean bag. Tentatively delivery on 22 Jan 2013.
Bedroom parquet yet to choose. Dunno when will that be.
Btw we went celini just now and confirm the promo set.
$2998, we got a L shape sofa, 4 chairs + dining table, coffee table and a tv console. We add in $89 to get a bean bag. Tentatively delivery on 22 Jan 2013.
Thursday, December 20, 2012
Courts midnight shopping -- Mattress
Forget to update this:
We went Courts Megastore for mid night shopping at around 1230mn on 2/12/2012.
It is to celebrate our one decade anniversary as well as they happened to open 24 hours that day to celebrate their re-opening after a renovation. How lucky are we?!
We were looking at sofas, dining set and most important matter: mattress!
Looking back then, we had tight budget when we just shifted into Sengkang. We just anyhow bought a spring mattress to sleep till 2007.
Then we went to buy a mattress from Seahorse. Quality is good! but then its abit too hard for us. Only now then we realised that for side sleeper, a softer mattress is more suitable. A hard mattress is more suitable to back sleepers which both of us arent.
This time round, we promise ourselves that we shall get a good mattress to ensure a good night rest.
Best will be of hotel feel! lol
In the end, we bought a Sealy mattress model: Quiver. King Size! Woohoo! can roll on the bed liao! haha...
Thickness is ard 12inch.
Its the least expensive in the prestige range but still cost us around $3.7K after discount.
Freebies including 2 hollow fibre pillows and 1 king size mattress protector.
If there is no free bed frame promotion coming up, we will need to buy a bed frame then.
What an expensive mid night shopping!
We went Courts Megastore for mid night shopping at around 1230mn on 2/12/2012.
It is to celebrate our one decade anniversary as well as they happened to open 24 hours that day to celebrate their re-opening after a renovation. How lucky are we?!
We were looking at sofas, dining set and most important matter: mattress!
Looking back then, we had tight budget when we just shifted into Sengkang. We just anyhow bought a spring mattress to sleep till 2007.
Then we went to buy a mattress from Seahorse. Quality is good! but then its abit too hard for us. Only now then we realised that for side sleeper, a softer mattress is more suitable. A hard mattress is more suitable to back sleepers which both of us arent.
This time round, we promise ourselves that we shall get a good mattress to ensure a good night rest.
Best will be of hotel feel! lol
Thickness is ard 12inch.
Its the least expensive in the prestige range but still cost us around $3.7K after discount.
Freebies including 2 hollow fibre pillows and 1 king size mattress protector.
If there is no free bed frame promotion coming up, we will need to buy a bed frame then.
What an expensive mid night shopping!
Before...
Reno had started.Hacking had beeb completed. Today cement screeding will start. Then will be waiting game -- cement acreed to dry before work can proceed.
Let start with before pictures:
Oh.. extra news!
Our friend who lived in next block told us that actually her dad knew the ex-owners of this flat. Of cos he doesnt know by the name, they knew in the sense that they freq the coffeeshop below and started talking.
Recently he mentioned that long time nv see 'A'(e ex owner) so Auntie B told him cos A shifted liao. Then he said he din even know where A is staying. so Auntie B told him that A stayed where and thus he suspected its the ex owners. We thought A will be the husband, end up A is actually the wife! They need to sell the house is simply because the husband's business had failed and thus they need to sell the house.
Oh We see....
Let start with before pictures:
Oh.. extra news!
Our friend who lived in next block told us that actually her dad knew the ex-owners of this flat. Of cos he doesnt know by the name, they knew in the sense that they freq the coffeeshop below and started talking.
Recently he mentioned that long time nv see 'A'(e ex owner) so Auntie B told him cos A shifted liao. Then he said he din even know where A is staying. so Auntie B told him that A stayed where and thus he suspected its the ex owners. We thought A will be the husband, end up A is actually the wife! They need to sell the house is simply because the husband's business had failed and thus they need to sell the house.
Oh We see....
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